Introducing Our Mini Explorer

It’s been over three months since we welcomed our mini explorer, Amelie Rose Jackson Mmari, into the world. Just like her dad, she arrived on “Tanzanian Time”, eleven days late on Saturday 10 February at 9.29am, weighing a whopping 9lbs and 12oz.

The months that have followed have been a completely new adventure and I have loved every second of being a mum (well perhaps with the exception of the sleep deprivation and poop explosions).

Our little bundle of joy is a complete dream, and although I am biased, I can’t help but stare at her for hours and melt over just how beautiful she is. Creating a human being is truly a miraculous thing, and I still can’t quite get my head around how we made something so perfect!

And yes, that mop of hair! She came out with gorgeous long dark locks, so the months and months of heartburn were completely worth it in the end!

She is just the happiest, smiliest little baby and has been so alert and on the ball since day one. Even the midwives were surprised by how forward she was from just a few days old.

As each day passes her smiles keep getting bigger and she just gets smarter and chattier. Sometimes I really have to remind myself that she is only three months old!

Needless to say, we are TOTALLY smitten and in love.

My New Adventure in Motherhood

I will spare you all the gory details about the birth itself. But I will say that although it didn’t turn out to be quite the natural water birth I had hoped for, it was still a truly magical experience. I must be mad to say this, but despite the undeniable crippling pain a mother goes through during labour, I would do it all again just for the moment I got to look into her eyes for the first time.

After four days in the hospital (Amelie was in the special care unit for breathing difficulties and swallowing her own poop, and I was recovering from an emergency c-section) we finally went home. I was staying with my parents in the UK, who were putting a roof over our head until I returned to Tanzania to see her dad (for those of you who are new here, I moved to Tanzania last year and fell pregnant within a few months of living there – you can read more about that by clicking here)

Having my parents around for the first two months of Amelie’s life was truly special. It was a unique situation in the sense that they got to spend so much time with her and it was wonderful for me to see them form such a close bond. My mum, in particular, was my rock – she was there for me during the labour and helped out on many occasions to give me some much-needed rest. Without their support, I am certain I would have been a broken woman!

Our Family Reunion in Tanzania

However, on the flip-side, those first months were also quite challenging for me and the father as unfortunately, he couldn’t come to the UK due to various visa constraints. Long distance relationships are tough at the best of times, but trying to be new parents from afar as well…that was pretty hard. I can only imagine how much more difficult it must have been for him, not being able to cuddle his daughter and only seeing her on FaceTime.

But while it was hard, I was thankful to have my friends and family around me who always show their unconditional support. And luckily Amelie kept me on my toes enough for the time to pass quickly and before we knew it, we were embarking on our first big adventure together and hopped on a plane to meet daddy for the first time!

I already have a feeling that Amelie is going to be a natural explorer – she took everything in her stride and was as good as gold throughout the entire 15-hour journey. A journey I was completely dreading with a young baby, but my little girl did me proud! At the end of the flight, it was lovely how all the hostesses and other passengers complimented Amelie on how well she behaved.

When we finally arrived at Kilimanjaro Airport in Tanzania, it was an emotional reunion, to say the least! And while it took Amelie a few days to settle into her new home and get to know her daddy, it’s been lovely to see their relationship grow over the weeks.

So why Amelie Rose Jackson?

Some of you may be curious to know the reasoning behind her full name. “Amelie” was a name that I have loved for a very long time (inspired by one of my favourite films starring Audrey Tatou) and thankfully Dad was a fan of the name Emily, so this slight adaptation didn’t take much convincing. As for her first middle name “Rose”, well I just thought it sounded pretty and rolled off the tongue quite nicely following “Amelie.”

So what about Jackson Mmari? In Tanzanian tradition, it is common for children to take both of their father’s names. Regardless of whether they are a girl or a boy!

Although Jackson couldn’t quite get his head around the reasoning behind my random middle name choice, and I couldn’t understand why it was important for our daughter to take both his “boy” names, we decided to meet in the middle (like many things in an intercultural relationship!!) and hence Amelie Rose Jackson Mmari was born.

So What’s Next?

The blogging and social media activity has definitely slowed down in recent months as Amelie has been keeping us very busy! But I am sure as things get more settled, I will try and find the time to share more about life in Tanzania as “Mama Amelie”  (it’s a tradition here for mums to be called the “mother of” their firstborn’s name).

One thing is for sure, we can’t wait to start showing Amelie more of the world and we hope she will enjoy exploring just as much as we do. So watch this space!

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4 Comments

  • Reply
    Claire
    May 25, 2018 at 5:43 pm

    She’s so beautiful. It’s great that you had your mum there with you. Mums are great! I also love the fact that you named her Amelie because of the film. Daniks also named his daughter Amelie for the same reason! Hope life is all good over there

    • Reply
      Nikki Godwin
      May 27, 2018 at 3:22 pm

      Aw thank you Claire, that’s really sweet! What a coincidence that they share the same name! Lovely!

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    Danik
    May 25, 2018 at 8:02 pm

    Fantastic blog Nikki. Inalso called my daighter Amélie as I love the name and was named after the same film. Wonder if our girls are going to be crazy bit thoughtful like Aidrey in the film. 😅😅

    • Reply
      Nikki Godwin
      May 27, 2018 at 3:23 pm

      Great minds think alike! We’ll have to set up a play date!

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